The girl who has spent her life surrounded by rules, limits and school uniforms will not be confined by anyone. Once she has found her voice, and her freedom, anyone interested better hold on for the ride. This girl is overly ambitious and will stop at nothing to achieve what she feels she deserves. Here are 5 things to know before making her your S.O.
1) You Cannot Control This Sassy Soul!
NEVER EVER try to control her, she is her own person. After spending a lifetime being told where, when, and how to live to be viewed as the “good girl”, the last thing she will stand for is doing it again. Let her live, and she will love you unconditionally.
2) Be Direct With Your Intentions
This girl does not have time to play games; she appreciates a direct and clear roadmap of where you see the relationship going. You can tell this girl anything, from you want to serenade her with flowers, rose petals and wine OR you want nothing more than a freaky hookup 3 times a week. As long as your intentions are clear, and do not interfere with her major goals, she is happy!
3) Be Aggressive, But understanding
This girl may seem like all she wants is a push over, but that is not the case. She needs someone that is aggressive, but also is understanding to her needs. Let her pick the destinations, let her navigate but if she gets distracted, and tries stray away from the planned destination, be man enough to tell her NO.
4) Be Her Cheerleader
Sometimes we can get so driven and determined to meet a goal, that we forget that WE are an asset to that goal. We set our eyes on something to tightly, we forget our self-worth. We forget that there are people out there that do get what we are going through, and are willing to help us reach our goals quicker, just remind her, you are her biggest cheerleader.
5) Show Interest In The Geeky Stuff She Loves.
We good girls can go bad, but sometimes the geeky tendencies stay with us. We are ready to whip out the crazy lingerie, whiskey and red lipstick, but only after the trip to the science museum for free museum day, and after analyzing the various theories of Sigmund fraud. Learn to enjoy this with her.
