As The Chaos Of Life Threatens Our Friendship, I Promise You This

Lately, it seems that we are at a stage where we are drifting apart and that really breaks my heart. However, I feel like it is no one's fault. We are just both in very different places in our lives right now and we are not doing a very good job of making time for us. 

I want you to know that you are my person. You have been like a sister to me, and you have always been the one who is the most honest with me, even when I don't want you to be. 

Things have just been so hectic for both of us. I think we have just lost things in the shuffle of everyday life. 

I remember the days that we would be inseparable, at the gym, the mall… Sometimes I miss those days because it was a simpler time and the memories that I have of those times are the best. 

I know we have moved into adulthood and the dynamic of our friendship has changed a bit. Life has gotten crazy, we have jobs and relationships, but one thing that I don't want you to forget in all of this adulting that we are doing, is how much our friendship means to me. It'd be a shame to lose the strong friendship that we've built when it's the one thing that can keep us grounded in our life's journeys. 

You are the one person who knows everything about me, you are my best friend, my sister, my confidant. That is something that will never change and I need you in my life. So I promise to make our friendship a priority and to continue being your rock through whatever life throws at us. I'm here for you, no matter how hectic life gets. Our friendship is strong enough to make it through it all, that I know with certainty. 

You are the most amazing person in my life and you are worth fighting for, our friendship is worth preserving. 

So I am purposing that we make time for us, that we make our friendship a priority and set time to meet a few times a month where we can get together and just be you and me again. Someone has to keep me in check and that person is you.  But more importantly, I miss having you around. 

Let's be crazy together like old times, let's continue to make amazing memories that will last forever. There's so much more to share and so much more to experience together. 

I love you friend and I promise to not let the chaos of life get between us.

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Emily Anne

Hi, my name is Emily and I am 26. I spend a lot of my time being a dog mom to my Irish setter, Annie and trying to be the very best girlfriend to my very best friend. I am a full time student and although I am not sure what I want my career to look like, I do know that I want to help people. I also work full time as a teaching assistant. Writing is one of my hobbies, which is what brought me to Puckermob. I love having a place where I can share my stories, the good and the bad. I love that I can share the things that have helped me through the hard times, as well as, all of the good things that are happening. I also love to read. Some of my favorite books right now are “Didn’t see that coming,” by Rachel Hollis and “Daring Greatly,” by Brene Brown. You can find me on Instagram where you can see all of my adventures with Annie, my boyfriend, and my baby-sister.

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