A relationship isn’t something you’re just in, it becomes part of you. When you’re in love, you will unconsciously go out of your way to make her smile, to send her that text you know is going to make her day.
It won’t be forced or awkward, it will just come naturally. She'll feel like the most beautiful, important girl in your world without question.
So until you can man up and be that guy for her, you don’t get to have her.
Her heart is too big and too trusting to be played with by a guy like you.
She doesn’t deserve to be the one to start every conversation, to make all the plans, to constantly make you a priority and never have that feeling reciprocated.
She spends hours over analyzing her messages to you, wondering if maybe she said something stupid or maybe you took something she said the wrong way and that’s why you’re not answering.
And instead of owning up to your lack of interest, you cop out by saying you were ‘busy’ because you know you can get away with it.
You know she's the type to find the good in every person and never give up on a love, especially yours. So she tolerates your inconsistencies and gives you chance after chance.
But the thing you didn't realize was there was only so much hope left in her heart. And every time you didn't choose her, a little bit of hope floated out of her.
And now that it's run out, she won't let you treat her like she's disposable any longer. Because now she knows if you truly and completely wanted her in your life, you would've made sure she was.
She deserves to be in a relationship with a guy who builds her up and never tears her down. A guy who cares for her on a deeper level than anyone else and makes sure she knows she’s loved every second of every day without fail.
Because that’s everything she put into this relationship that you took advantage of so easily.
Just know that now she knows she’s so much more important than how worthless you made her feel.
She can finally be alone and content with herself and without a heavy heart wondering why you’re not answering.
And as much as she wants to hate you, she can't because you taught her the most important lesson in love she could’ve ever asked for…
She's capable of loving someone with her entire being and will never expect anything less than that in return.