The one thing that most of us fail to see in the heat of the most intense pain that we’ve ever felt in our lives is, that it’s us in charge of our happiness.
Humility. It’s a cold hearted bitch and shows you not even an ounce of remorse while teaching you some of the most monumental, beneficial lessons of your life. Usually, the ones that you’d lied and told yourself that you’d already learned.
As hard as these lessons are to swallow, still, all the same, they are necessary for your personal growth. Avoiding them, rather than confronting them head on will only drag out the painful process more and make you more angry at yourself in the long run. Trust me. I know.