Dirty talk is something that every couple should try to incorporate into their sex life. The saying goes, you won’t know until you try. Say it (or moan it) and you’ll get the idea if she is feeling it too.
Each relationship is different – certain words or phrases may be off limits for some people, while they may be a huge turn on for others. Find out what your partner is comfortable with.
If you don’t want to bring dirty talk into the bedroom just yet, try sexting.
1. Use “dirty” words. Try phrases like, ‘Does my dirty little whore like that?’ ‘Are you my dirty little slut?’ Some women find these to be derogatory and demeaning, so it really depends on what she's comfortable with. Simpler phrases like ‘Fuck me harder,’ may be better for beginners.
2. Compliment her. Call her sexy. Be specific. It can be anything from her hands to her hair to her tits. ‘Mmm, you have such a tight ass.’ ‘I love the curve of your back.’ Be dirty. Tell her she has such a tight pussy.
3. Be dominant. Hold her hands above her head and tell her when to cum. When you notice she is about to climax, tell her not yet. Do this once or twice and then tell her she can cum. She’ll be ready to explode and the orgasm will be euphoric.
4. Be quiet. Before you go down on her, tell her that if she moans you’ll stop (or spank her, if you’re feeling frisky). She won’t be able to hold it in long, toes curling she’ll let loose. When you stop (or spank) she’ll be begging for more.
5. Say her name. Moan her name. Use it in a phrase, such as ‘Ohhh, [insert name here], fuck me harder.’ She’ll get a sense of dominance, boosting her esteem and your orgasm.
6. Use your senses. Tell her she tastes amazing. You love the taste of her skin, her sweat, her cum That the sound of her moans turns you on. You ache to hear her scream in satisfaction. You want to see the cum dripping down her pussy. Keep the words penis and vagina at the doctor’s office.
7. Step up your game. Bring fantasies and role playing into the bedroom. Buy her a sexy, skimpy outfit and play Naughty Teacher/Student, Cheerleader/Football Player, etc. This opens the door to a world of dirty talk waiting to be explored.
Try one or all of these and spice things up in your sex life. Trust me, you won't be sorry.
