Relationships, especially long ones, are easy to get into but hard to get out of. Everything starts off great, all lovey dovey and spending every minute together, then before you know it you get into the routine of life and its not just you two in your little bubble. Before you know it, years have passed by and you’ve forgotten what YOU want in this life. After all, you only get THIS ONE. And you realize that you and your partner barely speak, or you fight all the time, or you don’t see eye to eye on just about anything; and you decide you want MORE than what life is giving you now.
But you are so vested into this relationship. Do you try and change it to fit in the new things you want to do in life? What if your partner doesn’t want to? Will you resent them? Do you both still want the same things as you did in the beginning?
Not all relationships have to end on bad terms or end because things went badly. Sometimes people just grow apart. Its no one’s fault. And ITS OKAY! Your not stuck.
People break up and get divorced every day. Sometimes its easy and sometimes its not. But there is no reason to feel stuck in a relationship that you don’t want to be in. Its not fair to you and its also not fair to the other person. You are thinking about you which is perfectly acceptable, but consider how the other person feels and express your feelings.
Most people make things worse in their head by having words unsaid and assuming the response.
