I am ready to let go of our almost relationship. The chances of us being involved with each other now seem nonexistent. We both invested months with each other just to be pretty much ghosted for no apparent reason other than you are emotional unavailable. Its not easy ending things in silence.
You gave me no reason or closure to end this almost relationship. There was no indication that you were going to push me away when you did. I really thought we had something going for us. I was truly excited to see where this relationship could have taken us. But you chose differently without saying a word.
Everyone has their own opinions on how to handle these situations of being ignored or shall I say ghosted like stop “Reaching out to them.”” Don’t flip out on them, you’ll scare them off.” or even advise like “get everything off your chest and tell them how you really feel”. No matter what route you take we know in the end it’s likely they won’t respond to you anyways.
It seems to be easy to just let them go and not say anything at all because who knows you may get a second chance with them potentially in the future. You still hold on to that little bit of hope that it was just not the right timing.
But it’s unfair that you never received the closure you deserved to move on when you developed deep emotional feelings for them. There is nothing to lose anymore whether you reach out or not. Whatever will help mend that broken heart of yours is worth taking action on.
Just don’t forget if you send that text just do it with class. Make sure they know how amazing you thought they were and how you hoped they could have respected you enough to let you know they were no longer interested in you. But handle the situation with dignity knowing that at the end you let them go with the words you wanted to tell them.
Maybe that glimmer of hope you are holding on to will open their eyes and see your worth and just maybe finally wake up with the words you speak of the final goodbye. Either way always know your true value and worth. If you feel like you want the closure you deserve and the answers to why they left make sure you handle it with dignity.
