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I’d Literally Choose Wine Over A Guy Any Day

“Not all girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice. Some girls are made of sarcasm, WINE, and everything nice” 

“Fuck guys, sip on some wine instead” that’s my mantra. Because wine represents my individuality, independence and how much I love myself more than any guy out there. Yes, I always put myself first.  I'm an alpha girl who knows the meaning of self-love and won’t apologize for it, so no guy takes precedence over my wine. 

Yes. being in love is great and sharing your life with a special someone is amazing, but the truth is, very little people in this world deserve me. No one’s gonna take better care of myself than my own heart, so before giving it away to the wrong guy, I rather wait for those who are truly deserving, be a winederslust and experience life drinking a nice glass of wine. 

I have to be picky and choose wisely. I’m in no rush to share my life with a special someone, so, through the process of finding “the one” I want to avoid as much drama in my life as possible. I want to enjoy life to the fullest without having to worry about all the bs that comes with dating. I believe that when the right guy comes along, I will feel it in my bones, and I’ll then decide if that person is worthy of my time and my heart. In the meantime, a nice glass of wine is the most reliable companion, no strings attached, no judgement, no drama.

Me time becomes a whole lot better and fulfilling when you accompany it with the right bottle of vino. You don’t have to stick to one kind, you can have a different flavor every day of the week and have it be part of your routine as it best fits your lifestyle. There are no rules when it comes to enjoying a nice glass of your favorite drink. All you have to do is check on your mood and match it up with the type of wine that’s gonna best highlight your spirit. 

If you wanna netflix and chill, no problem. Toss the guy and grab a glass of wine instead. Binge watch your favorite show or enjoy your favorite romcom while sipping on your grape “juice.”

When you’re home alone or hanging out with friends you can get your tipsy on one glass at time, no questions asked, no rules, no effort. You see? It’s the opposite of having to deal with the annoying dating games. Put yourself first, do you, because that means you get to set the rules and you get to change them and break them as you please. 

No, you don’t use wine as a scape, it’s just the one thing you love and enjoy that reminds you of your strength. Because you know who you are, what you want and what you need in your life, and you’re not settling for anything less than what you deserve. 

When you embrace the things that you love, you’re loving yourself. You’re not waiting for anyone to make you happy, you realize that you are more than capable of giving yourself what you need to be happy. You have free will, you get to choose what makes your heart skip, so today, choose wine.