We see them in movies all the time, we hear about girls we went to school with doing them, hell, we even hear about some of friends doing them. You probably always thought to yourself that you would never have one. Yet here you are, thinking about them, and how you could *mAyBe* have one sometime.
One night stands used to be, and in many places still are, so taboo. But the times are changing! More and more woman are becoming more sexually liberated than ever before, and that is completely okay, a good thing even! Before, women were taught that it’s boys who liked sex. It’s boys who were pervs. Girls are supposed to be lady like. God forbid we even hint to the fact we like sex, yet even want to have it with someone who we’re attracted to?! With feminism and equal rights coming more into the light in the 21st century; more woman want to be seen as equal and want to be treated the same as men. When it comes to sex, men are seen as gods if they are able to sleep with 10 women. However if a woman were to sleep with 10 men, she’s looked down upon and becomes labeled as a slut. Women are sick of these double standards and are changing the rules to the game.
With more and more women freeing their *wOmAnHoOd* you may start to get the confidence to free yours as well.
One night stands are extremely simple. Yet, because we are girls, we like to over complicate things. If you’re going to partake in a one night stand, you have to be simple. Everything you are doing with the person is primal. That’s all. There are no feelings. No thoughts, no emotions. It’s just you, the other person, and your guys’ physical attraction to each other. You have to know that going in. If both parties are not on the same page, then a one night stand is not a good idea. However, if you’re down to just feel, and not think, then a one night stand could be extremely fun for you.
Two people; that’s all it takes. Just two people who have an insane physical attraction to each other. Everyone has had one before… every once in a while you meet someone that you’re not sure why, but you are super attracted to them and thought of being alone with that person gets your heart racing. At that moment, there is nothing more in the world that you want more than this person.
I know some girls are thinking, “but what will people think”? WHO CARES. Honestly, who cares what people think. It is your life and absolutely none of their business. Life is too short to be ashamed of your sexuality and your attraction to someone. If you’re letting other people’s thoughts of you and your actions dictate how you live your life, than you will never actually live your life. But that’s a different topic for a different day.
So, if you’re going to partake in one night stand know these three things:
1. This is pure physical attraction, there are no feelings involved.
2. Always have your partner wear a condom. ALWAYS. One night stands are fun, but STD’s are not.
3. Have fun, and don’t give a shit what people have to think.
