Reasons To Embrace Your 'Hoe Stage' of Life

So, you're recently single, eh?

I bet you just came out of a two or three year relationship, hell, maybe even a year relationship. Prior to that relationship you were probably in another one before that. Either way… now is the time for your 'hoe' stage of life. 

There are several reasons why you shouldn't be ashamed to be single while in your 20's, instead you should embrace it. 

1. That hot guy that you see in the bar, guess what? You can make out with him and not feel bad about it.

2. After making out with him, you could even take him home if you want. Or vice versa. 

3. You don't have to check in with anyone during the night and letting them know where you're going and who you're with.

4. You can talk to multiple guys at once. (Guys do it, so why can't we?)

5. You get to control the rules and get an opportunity to see if you're really interested in this person. Or the other person. Or so on, so forth. 

6. You don't have to rush into a relationship so quickly, you can see what you like first.

7. You can FINALLY relate to your single girlfriends. You won't be the odd one out. 

 8. You don't have to jump straight into another relationship. You can take time to yourself. 

9. You will learn how to become your own person and know who you are. 

10. You can be selective in who you're putting your time towards or rather, your 'needs'.

11. You won't have to worry if the guys you're talking to, are talking to someone else…because you'll be doing the same. 

12. No routine, no wondering if they're in it for the long haul.

13. You won't have expectations of what will become of the relationship with these guys because you're trying to enjoy being single while you can. 

14. All spontaneity, all the time. 

15. You'll remember what it's like to be that independent girl you once were.

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Amy Calo

a 22 year-old from Chicago, IL. Likes her coffee sweet, like most people. She thinks life isn't meant to be lived in one place.   Twitter handle: @twinzcuties1992 Facebook URL:

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