Definition of a party girl: A woman, especially one who is young, who is known for her enthusiastic and frequent attendance of parties; a female party animal.
So you see her at the bars every weekend, dancing her ass off, taking (probably too many) shots, socializing and leaving around 2am. She always has a big crowd around her, always flirting, and usually wearing a fantastic outfit.
You probably think that she’s going to go home with someone random, being completely irresponsible. You probably imagine that she lives in chaos. You probably think she lives like this everyday.
What you don’t see, is that during the week, she goes to bed at a reasonable time, makes her coffee the night before, meal preps. Her apartment is immaculately clean, and she actually takes off her makeup every night. The bags under her eyes are no longer there and her hair is always on point.
She gets up and goes to work, kicks ass, and goes home. Sure she might go to a happy hour, but only has a beer or two.
This stigma of someone being a party girl and going no where with her life is, quite simply put, bullshit. Maybe she’s just blowing off steam from her demanding week, and maybe she doesn’t want kids or a relationship anytime soon.
It’s OK for the career girl to go out every weekend and party her ass off. She earned it.