Guy spots a girl on the other side of the bar and goes up to her to buy her a drink. They have a few drinks and bam they’re in bed together at the end of the night.
Maybe you’ve heard that story from a girlfriend or lived it firsthand.
Whatever it is, you normally wake up hating yourself the next morning if you’re in this position.
You’ve given yourself the title of only being mattress material.
Mattress material means guys won’t get into a relationship or even go on a date with certain girls but they will take them to bed.
You’re made for his mattress not public.
They don’t see a future of any form with you. They don’t want someone to spot you two out in public together on a date.
They won’t offer to take you out to lunch or some coffee. All they want and all you’ll ever be is his booty call or one night stand.
Hate being mattress material? Then stop being mattress material and start being marriage material.
If you wants to stop being mattress material, you have to change your ways.
Stop sleeping with the guy on the first date.
Stop being a one night stand.
Stop settling and hold out for someone who treats you right.
Life isn’t a fairytale nor is love easy but don’t give up. Get out of the hookup culture, have fun, and don’t let the jerks of the world ruin her faith.
Yeah some guys are just jerks and all they’ll ever want is to sleep with a bunch of girls but not all guys are like that.
So hold out for the guy you deserves, one who will treat you right.
You should stand tall, be confident, and stop letting others view you as mattress material.
You’re so much more than that.
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