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The Pain Of Watching Your Daughter Go Through A Toxic Relationship

“You didn’t love her. You just didn’t want to be alone. Or maybe she was just good for your ego, or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn’t love her because you don’t destroy the person that you love.” -Grey’s Anatomy.

And you did just that, you destroyed her. 

The worst part is that after everything you put her through, you think that you have the right to be angry, That you have the right to call her a few names, and tell anyone who will listen that she turned out to be this, and she turned out to be that. 

But conveniently you will fail to mention the hell you put her through. You will leave out just how long she put up with your shit, and how long she made up pathetic excuses for you, before she wised up.

But you’re a coward; and that’s just the type of shit that cowards do. 

You turned my joyful, energetic and full of life daughter into a person I didn’t recognize. 

You took the life right out of her. Her smile dimmed, you took her light and that still wasn’t enough so you clouded her with with your darkness, until she couldn’t see nothing but the shadows. All because you couldn’t handle the fact that her light was shining brighter than yours.

You drained her of her identity, her being. You injected self doubt into her veins, left her at war with her own mind. You took her-self worth, her dignity. She doesn’t know who she is anymore.

She gave you chance after chance, and you failed every single time.

But so did I.

I’m supposed to her guardian, and protect her from cowards like you. 

But she never gave me the chance to, she made up excuse after excuse for you… she protected you. 

Can you even comprehend what it’s like to watch your daughter, somebody you love with every ounce of your being go through absolute hell and be able to do nothing about it?

You may have gotten away scot-free this time, but that’s the thing about life, it’ll let you get away with something for so long, then sooner or later you will pay the price. 

Don’t forget that everything you do in life causes the effects that you will experience. 

And boy, when you get the bill be prepared to pay, and what a price you have to pay. She was just one of your long list of victims, and she certainly won’t be the last.