I believe a soulmate is more than just a physical body- it is someone who completes your being as a whole… someone who completes your mind, body, spirit, and soul.
I believe that everyone wants to meet their soul mate. I am also a believer that some people, and they may or may not know it, are not with their soul mate.
I once had a neighbor, who was married, and she told me she knew who her soulmate was, however she was not married to him. It didn’t mean she didn’t love her husband, but it meant she was not with her “person??? if you will.
She explained that in her next life, she may be with him. She believed that she and her soulmate would stay on Earth, and live multiple lives until her and her soulmate ended up together like they are supposed to.
We are meant to find our person and we will eventually be with our person no matter how long it takes.
Greek Myth states that originally humans had two of everything. Two arms, two legs, etc. However, Zeus was afraid of the human’s power, so he split us in two. We then were supposed to wonder the planet and live our lives until we can find our other halves and be together as one again.
I am not sure what I believe religiously, so I’m not sure that I would live multiple lives. However, I do like the idea. Because I do believe that there is a soulmate out there for everyone.
I believe that there are some people that you will meet that you will just have a connection with, and it’s something you can’t explain, but it’s just there. Everyone has a person, you are just connected- as if it was instinct.
I think about it this way: butterflies. We have all felt them with someone, and they are one of the most amazing things to feel. But not everyone has the ability to give us butterflies, regardless of how great of a person they are.
Yet some people, for some reason, just do. And if that rare someone can give you butterflies for a few months, and they aren’t your soulmate, can you imagine what your soulmate and you will feel? There will be that connection that just makes sense.
A lot of people are cynical of soulmates, and I understand that. It’s more than just two people who are “meant to be together???. It is two people CHOOSING to be together at the same time. Two people CHOOSING each other. If one person is not in, it will never work.
No one is perfect, and no relationship is perfect. It all takes work. But I do believe there is a person for everyone. There is a lot of bad in the world, but there is a lot of good. You just have to know where to look. Love is the one thing that gets everyone through. The saddest people in the world are the people who don’t feel any love from anyone.
So yes, I do believe in soulmates. But I also believe that a soulmate doesn’t have to be romantic, it can be a life partner that you find in a best friend.
But the lucky ones, and I mean the really lucky ones, they will find that their soulmate is both.
