When a girl is fiercely independent, there's usually something that happened to her in the past that has led her to realize the only person she could depend on is herself.
She decided that nothing would get done unless she did it.
And so that’s what she did. She took complete and utter control of her life, for better and for worse, and that has been what's gotten her to the place she is today.
When you love the fiercely independent girl, you have to understand that she isn’t going to be used to having someone to ‘answer to’ so to speak.
She’s going to want to do her own thing.
She won’t want to tell you her whereabouts every second of the day. She won’t be clingy and won't appreciate it if you're clinging to her. She needs for you to be independent too.
You will need to understand that she likes to do things for herself, and while romantic gestures are sweet, she can do them for herself nine times out of ten.
She doesn't like feeling pressured.
She’s looking for someone who can understand her and let her do their own thing, but still find other things to do together. She wants a balanced relationship where the two of you are never overpowering one another.
She wants a relationship full of adventure, laughter, and most of all, freedom.
She doesn’t want to feel tied down, but she wants you to wrap her in your love for her all the same. She’ll need her own space from time to time, but she’ll have no problem giving you yours in return.
Just remember that she doesn’t need you, but she still wants you.
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