We have all experienced chapters in our lives where someone played with our heart. We end up feeling disrespected, trampled on and basically feeling as if we wasted time on someone that was not even worth everything we were giving.
It is never time wasted, there are always lessons learned through these chapters. There should be no regrets in your heart because the truth is, you’ve gain so much from every heartbreak.
Just because you have a heart of gold doesn’t mean everyone else does and that’s ok. Some people will never acknowledge the good that you do merely because they do not have the heart that you do.
Don’t ever blame yourself for someone’s inability to appreciate how much you’re capable of giving. It says a lot about themselves rather than you.
Do not ever apologize for being a carefree spirit because your heart is a reflection of who you are and in the end it will be rewarded. But until you find the person who will appreciate you, be strong because…
You will cross paths with those people who will claim to love fully but in reality it’s just half ass love. Sometimes it’s genuine but most of the time it’s not. Indecisive people are the worst to be with. If someone second guesses your love then walk out.
If they’re not ready to give you their 100 % then you should certainly not be ready to give your all to them. Do not allow anyone to make you feel as if you are not enough or good enough to be loved immediately. Don’t waste your time with these type of people either, in the end…
You cannot save anyone but yourself. We meet people and often assume that they are so broken that we need to help heal them but in the end, we end up breaking ourselves.
Be careful of those who misuse your good nature. Some people smell happiness and innocence and decide to tear that a part with the notion of “if I cannot be happy, nobody can”.
You cannot change people, they have to change for themselves. It’s called growth and nobody knows another person better than they know themselves. Save yourself the heartache.
People aren’t always who they say they are. People take on characters instead of being their authentic self. It shows that they are extremely insecure with themselves. They do not love themselves enough to show the world who they really are but are quick to judge others.
Love should never be a complicated. If the feeling isn’t mutual, don’t string someone along. If you are genuinely not ready, do not play games with someone’s heart.
We become so involved that we forget that actions speak louder than words. People love differently but actions are always the same. The effort is all that matters.
If someone does not take the chance to be with you or is not obsessed with the thought of you, let them go. You do not deserve to be confused or frustrated. Do not ever change your heart to please those who have let their beat to a slower drum.
You do not need anyone to complete you other than yourself. Why settle for someone less when you can be so much more on your own? You are unique and worthy of more than anyone can offer.
Finding security within yourself is the greatest gift that nobody can ever take from you. Find it, Keep it and live it!
Time is never wasted but lessons are always learned. Whenever you make a mistake, just take a moment to realize that it was done for a reason. To make you stronger and make you wiser. So, never, ever regret your mistakes.
Make sure that whatever you do, you do it with the greatest impact towards your own life because that’s the only life you are living.
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