Honestly, one of the hardest things to get over is that one relationship that really turned your world upside down.
But moving on from something like that is so much more than finding someone new…
It means you are strong enough to let go
It means forgiving the other person whether they apologize or not; or whether they deserve it or not.
It means admitting you are sorry and knowing you made a mistake and surging on. It means you are willing to let go of what has happened in the past.
And truly and completely free yourself
Freedom starts with desiring for it. Sometimes we could be enslaved with the notion of “what if.” We are asking ourselves what if certain things didn’t happen.
We are boxed in the past and do not want to get out of it. If you want to move on you have to accept freedom.
That you are willing to learn from your mistakes
Yes, you want to learn from your mistakes. Rather than sulk about your misfortune, you are willing to smile and adapt.
You are meant to know more about yourself after a failed relationship.
Really you don’t need to consume yourself in worry about those things that didn’t work out, you need to find peace and comfort in the journey you have taken.
And find it inside yourself to become a better person
There is no need playing the victim. Victims don’t win. To defeat the past you have to be willing to find strength even in discomfort. You shouldn’t be beaten or burnt, but you should rise and find the strength to conquer your fears.
That you’re prepared to face tomorrow with more than just a smile
You would be better equipped to face the future when you are willing to focus on the positives and the bright side. You should believe that tomorrow has something better in store for you. This way you can embrace the future with a better perspective.
But with a true appreciation for who you are
Your self-esteem shouldn’t be bruised by a terrible experience. It means you can appreciate how far you’ve come and how great things can be for you. It means loving and valuing yourself. It all starts with you, this way you can be loved by another person.
Because you’re one step closer to being completely healed.
You don’t need jealousy, envy or resentment. You don’t push or heal that way. You would find joy in who you are when you can have peace, joy and hope. You have to live in the moment and take a step at a time.
Maybe you can start all over again. Maybe you can pursue a new passion or skill. Maybe you can find something else that excites and challenges you.
Healing starts from recognizing that there are many components of life and you simply want to embrace something else.