I had a guy tell me once, “I’m tiny compared to you… I don’t want to suffocate just to get a nut.” There were so many things wrong with this statement. We didn’t last very long, to say the least.
I’m a big girl. I know it. I got these thick thighs that could crush a watermelon and a stomach that looks like I probably ate a few watermelons and forgot to chew them first.
For a long time, I let that one guy’s comment make me feel like I would never be able to ride a man. I’d never feel the empowerment of being on top, controlling how deep he was inside me, how fast we were going.
I let one small-minded f**kboy make me feel like sh*t because I was chunky, I could only be face down or back down.
I’d always be asked to get on top, but I’d make some joke out of it, saying something along the lines of, “No, then you’d really fall in love” or “You wouldn’t be able to handle this.”
When all I was really thinking is, “what if I’m too heavy?” “What if he really does start to suffocate and I don’t notice?” “What if I’m doing it wrong?”
Then, I did.
And let me be the first to let you lovely thick ladies out there know, you are not too heavy to ride him. You ride him like he is a bull and you are the professional. You take control of that dick and make him go crazy.
You won’t regret it, I promise.
The feeling of being in control will send sensations through your body like you’ve never known before. And the look on his face when he sees how confident you are on top of him, will be worth it.
It took one guy to make me self-conscious, but only 1 guy to show me there’s nothing to be self-conscious of.
As we all know, thick thighs really do save lives 😉
