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To Every Girl Consumed by Heartbreak, It's Time to Put Yourself First

What the hell are you thinking?

I see you using your best friends’ phone just to see your ex’s Instagram, re-reading your old texts, and looking through pictures of the two of you.

You should be dissing him, not missing him because you deserve so much better.

The cold hard truth is he’s gone and chances are good he’s never coming back. But I can promise you, in a year you’ll be wondering why the hell you ever cried over him.

He’s not worth your sleepless nights and wasted time. He’s moved on and so should you.

Cut this bullshit and focus on loving yourself instead of trying to love him. The moment you fall back in love with yourself, you’ll realize he missed out on the best thing that ever happened to him.

Love yourself enough that you don’t need to keep checking up on him because you already know in your heart that you’re doing better.

That broken heart of yours will heal the second you truly realize that you’re a dime piece and if he doesn’t see that, he isn’t worth thinking about.

I know some nights it can feel like your whole world is falling apart but that’s only because you made someone else the center of your world instead of loving yourself.

Why are you spending your time missing someone that disrespected you enough to break your heart?

One day you’ll find someone better who’ll love you for your every imperfection. Until that day comes you need to love yourself and stop crying over a stupid boy.

You are young and beautiful, go out and have a good time with your friends. Wouldn’t you rather be laughing than crying?

You deserve to feel so much better than you do in this moment. Life is meant to have ups and downs and right now, you’re simply at a down. 

The reality is until you make a change, life will not get better. You need to take a step back and realize that life has so much more to offer.

So stop spending your Friday nights crying over someone who isn’t even thinking about you.

He’s not worth that effort, but you are. So go out girl, and feel like a million bucks because that is what you deserve. You deserve all the happiness in the world.

Stop loving the guy who broke your heart and start loving the one who can make it whole again: yourself.

If he won’t give you the world, give it to yourself.