I’ve been there, actually i’m in that exact place in life right now. The place where you feel like literally everyone one of your friends are head over heels inlove and you’re left wondering “Why can’t I have that” or “What’s wrong with me that i can’t find love like that”. This is for all the 20 year olds that are in that same place too. Here are some things you need to remember.
THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU
I know this is the first question we go to when we think about everyone who is inlove, and it’s the absolute wrost. So I say this to assure you, nothing is wrong with you and you are absolutely perfect. Never let a guy or girl take that away from you. Self love is so important and always always always learn to love yourself before you try to love anyone else.
Timing Really Is Everything
Do not go out looking for love, love will come in due time. Alot of use rely on dating sites or our friends to set us up… trust me that usually doesnt end well. The fuck boy that has a shirtless pic on Tinder and favorite hobby is cuddling is more that likely not you’re soulmate, and neither is creepy craig that you let one of your guy friends set you up with (LOL). One day you could go to your favorite coffee shop and expect nothing but a vanilla latte with extra foam, and accidently bump into the cute guy behind you inline, and get to talk and hi fall for the dorky laugh of yours and boom love happens….cheesy right? Believe it or not love can actually happen that way though, unexpected and perfect timing.
Stop being annoyed at your friends inlove
Stop being bitter, it’s unhealthy and not cute. I’m as guilty as the next i’ve caught myself getting so annoyed when my gal pals talked about how happy and inlove they were and one day I realized why am I acting this way I should be so happy for them, because i know one day when i find that same kind of love the will be estatic for me. I know right now it seems like you’re the only friend who doesn’t have someone but be happ for them becuae yours will come along and they will be beyond excited for you.
Don’t Forget To Live Life
Don’t be so caught up on finding love that you forget to do the things of a 20 year old. Do everything on your bucket list, Jump out of a plane, Go to Morroco, Drink the whole bottle of wine do all these things before you look back when you’re 50 years old wondering why was I so caught up on the idea of love that I forgot to enjoy life. Maybe one day in the process of living your life you’ll find someone to enjoy life with, and take on the greatest adventure of all… life.
You Are 20, Flirty, & Thriving
Do you like my “13 going on 30” reference? Anyways, you are 20 not 100 you still have alot to learn about yourself and life before you just are ready to settle down. Change cities, change cars, change carrers. This is the most amazing time of life you have time to figure yourself out, so make your soul happy that will be what attracts love. Enjoy everything because it goes so fast.
From the 20 year old just like you.
xoxo