If you love her, you should be flattered by her slightly insane antics. You should be confident in the fact that she would chop her own finger off before walking away from you.
I am talking about a million and one phone calls when you’re mad at her… complete world demolition when you hang up on her or ignore her.
Ugly crying when something you do upsets her and begging and pleading and being totally annoying.
She’s a total nutcase.
But let me tell you, she is one of the best girls you could ever have in your life. If upsetting her uproots her life that much, she is pretty obviously devoted in this relationship 100%.
She will lay everything on the line for you, which shouldn’t be taken advantage of. She is the type of girl that will find herself five years down the road totally miserable and unhappy because she has devoted so much to your happiness.
She won’t leave without begging you at least a thousand times to help her fix this relationship, and driving you totally insane.
If you don’t love her, it is only fair for you to get the heartbreak over now. It is only fair for you to allow her give her love and complete devotion to someone who really wants and deserves it.
It would be simply inhumane to let her continue giving everything she has into a relationship that she will never get appreciation out of.
If you decide that you want to keep this rare beauty in your life, it is important to love her correctly. It is important to appreciate the way your love makes her crazy.
She is probably a strong and intelligent woman, so the way you make her feel makes her feel weak for ever allowing someone control the way she feels.
These girls are typically the ones you find chugging away in abusive relationships, whether mentally or physically, because they refuse to give up on the man they fell in love with.
They are healers, lovers and caregivers, so to walk away feels like a failure on their part.
They would instead rather beg and plead and keep trying to fix the things that they know are wrong.
This girl that you love, who is slightly crazy, will never ever take you for granted. She will love you with every ounce of her being and never let you feel alone. She will have your back even if you are wrong.
She will listen when you yell, and only cry once she is alone, only because she wants you to have the ability to get your feelings out. She will take her hurt feelings and shove them aside so that she can get back to her self appointed job of caring for your every need.
She has a hard exterior but on the inside she is as soft as the shade of pink that she loves… and as complex as the spiderweb in the corner of her room that she refuses to knock down.
So listen when I tell you: love her or let her go. She deserves that.
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