“I’m just not ready, my ex really hurt me.”
“My ex fucked me up by cheating, I’m sorry.”
“I got lied to, I have issues okay?”
Bull fucking shit! QUIT WITH THE EXCUSES!
Seriously dude. You think you’re the only one who’s been fucked over? You think you’re the only one who’s been lied to? Cheated on? NO! You’re not. This isn’t a “whoa is me” pity party. I’m not going to get Mr. Bear and Mrs. Panda so you can fucking cry into a tea cup. STOP playing victim. STOP being selfish and so stuck in your own mind, that you don’t see a good girl when she’s right in front of you.
And for the love of God, stop being so stuck in the damn past dude. This isn’t Back to The Future, you’re not Marty McFly, and you don’t own a delorean. So stop bringing up what they did to you in the past. Stop comparing us to all your ex’s.
Am I (insert horrible ex #3) who broke your heart?
No?
I’m not?
Then stop treating me like I am HER. It isn’t fair to me and it isn’t healthy to assume I’m going to do the same awful thing ‘what’s her face’ did. I’m not HER, I’m ME. Stop assuming I’ll break your heart, and give me the benefit of the doubt that I am who I say I am.
I’m not scared to prove to you I’m a good woman. I’m not scared to show you I’m not going to destroy you like the others have. You have to give me the chance. Otherwise, I’m going to walk away. And you’re going to be left sitting there in your delorean, clutching Mr. Bear, and it’ll suddenly dawn on you that I’m the one who’s getting away. But by then, it’ll be too late.