What Do You Really Want In A Long Term Mate?

Relationships and dating can be so complicated. For some people the whole dating world can be a huge cluster of meaningless relationships that go no where, but for the true romantics – they are striving to find the best relationship possible.

Is there a code or a checklist of how to make sure you are getting exactly what you want? Each individual person most likely has certain characteristics that define the ideal mate for them. The most important thing to determine is what exactly are you seeking.

Career Oriented Women

The biggest trait to expect for your career woman: she will be thinking about her work a majority of the time. Two committed people can build an empire together, because the general understanding of success can be appreciated. Career oriented people understand that being busy is important. It also can mean that quiet down time is even more important. The biggest complain for dating a woman with career dreams is being too independent & not showing a “need” for a partner.

Dating a Soccer Mom

This type of woman can be very interesting to date, because the soccer mom type generally is very simple. However, she might have a few tricks up her sleeve. You will always know when you are dating a soccer mom, because the mention of her kids will be a constant. Some men might get scared away from this, but some men might find the white picket fence dream to be a dream come true. Having a really good relationship is important for soccer mom’s. These women do not like to introduce their children to multiple men.

Seven indicators that help finding the perfect mate

  1. Spirituality and religion – if these qualities are substantial in your life, find someone that feels the same.

  2. Good morals – finding a mate that has the best interest of not only the person they are dating, but of human beings in general.

  3. Family values – if you are into building a family or you prefer dating a person that is all about their family, you need to take the time to really listen to how the person you are dating refers to family.

  4. Selflessness – this is such an important characteristic. Anyone would agree that being with a person that would rather give that take is a huge quality. Many people in the world want to take, take, and take more. When you are with someone that would rather give – hold on tight!

  5. Chemistry – for some people chemistry just comes naturally. Have you ever dated someone that you didn’t even have to speak to that person, you just already knew how each other felt? That is wonderful chemistry.

  6. Education and career – for some people this is important. If you were raised with this belief or if you know that you don’t want to live paycheck to paycheck, then don’t settle for less.

  7. Time – NEVER EVER rush this process. There are plenty of fish in the sea that are waiting out for the same. It may take more or less time, but you can never rush the perfect love.

Analyzing your love life can be overwhelming, but the main thing to do is just wait. Looking for love can be frustrating, but when you stop looking and let the universe take over, you might be surprised to find out the perfect love is closer than you think.

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Christina Smith

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