When you go out and your bestie is snapping videos and pictures of you, grinding on another girl who’s spanking your ass, don’t get defensive if someone calls you out on it. You were, in fact, portraying yourself as wanting to have a good time, which quite frankly is up to anyone’s interpretation.
Every feminist reading this is probably screaming “no to slut shaming” or “we need to support each other, not tear each other down”. Well, to each their own and everyone’s entitled to their own opinion. And really, no one is entitled to an explanation for feeling a certain way.
Let’s try something else here. Instead of going home with a random stranger and then posting it on all social media channels, go home and be with yourself. It’s totally cool to go out with your bestie or a group of people and have a good time. You just need to get to know yourself and think about whether or not you want to be known as the girl who’s DTF.
You are so young and hopefully, you have a lot of years left to experience life to the fullest. Do you really want to waste them by having meaningless encounters with random dudes? If you do, so be it and best of luck. If you don’t, then quit this shit right now.
Fall in love with yourself. Get to know yourself.
You can’t really appreciate another person and all the endless love they could potentially give you if you don’t love yourself first. Just know that the truest love you could ever have is finding the power and self-esteem to accept your inner and outer beauty.
The simple trick is when to let a guy in. No, it’s not on the first date. That usually sucks and doesn’t work out anyway.
Once you know yourself any asshole who might try and tear you down won’t be worth your time. You will see this from the beginning because you won’t be playing games. You will be having a great time to just be yourself and only for yourself.
Guys can simply smell a DTF girl from a mile away. They are usually seen as the girl they can’t take home, as the sharable one, and as the girl that is not seen. They are never taken seriously. Ever.
Be the one that changes them, be the one that’s beautiful and can have a great time with or without the man.
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