I know your heart feels like it’s in a million pieces right now. Like you’re on an emotional roller coaster that you never asked to ride.
One second you feel so angry you can’t see straight and the next you feel defeated and insecure. That ache in your chest makes it seem impossible to ever let anyone into your life again.
You might feel stupid and like it’s partially your fault. You should have known better. Maybe it could have worked if you had done something differently.
Maybe you aren’t pretty enough or thin enough to deserve him. Maybe if you hadn’t opened up to him about your past he wouldn’t have done this.
Do you want to know the truth?
The truth is that you are perfect just the way you are. You are not stupid. He’s a fucking idiot for letting someone go who is so kind, funny and thoughtful.
You are beautiful inside AND out. Every bit of you deserves love and loyalty. You are strong for opening yourself up to another person, which is not always easy.
The truth is that he doesn’t deserve you.
You have so many amazing things to offer this world. Finding out who he truly is allows you to move on with your life without wasting any more time on someone who is all wrong for you.
You can’t find the right person while wasting time with the wrong one. Now that you are free from his manipulation, you can start your next chapter. Now, you are going to heal and be stronger than you ever have been before.
I know right now it feels like your world is shattered and will never be the same. Honestly, it won’t be the same, it will be better.
You can take all the lessons that you have learned and embrace your new scars. You have the freedom to go out there and do things just for yourself.
Sometimes hitting rock bottom is a good thing. When you build yourself up all on your own, you come out on top feeling powerful, like you can handle anything that life throws at you.
When you eventually meet someone new and are considering a relationship, don’t be afraid. Have faith in yourself, you know what to look for this time.
You have survived heartache and when you meet your forever person, it will all be worth it. It will be worth it to feel genuine love from the person who will appreciate you and remain faithful. The right person will be so happy that you didn't give up on love.
You will soon see that this relationship was just a chapter, don’t close the book. The best is yet to come.
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