Exes…can’t live with them but we most definitely can live WITHOUT them.
Every single one of my past relationships have taught me a lesson. With each relationship ending, it shows me more of what I want in a significant other and what I definitely don’t want in one.
What I don’t want:
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To be lied to.
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To be cheated on.
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To be led on.
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To be used.
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To be bullied, belittled, constantly criticized, & torn down.
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To be alienated.
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To be ignored.
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To be compared to other girls/exes.
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To be controlled.
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To feel unsupported.
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To change everything about myself to make the other person happy.
What I do want:
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Someone will be completely honest from you; no matter what.
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Someone that is fully committed to me, and will not cheat on me.
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Someone that will communicate with me on everything.
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Someone that knows what they want out of life. (dating, marriage, family, etc.)
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Someone that knows that spending time together and spending time with yourself is equally important.
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Someone that supports my goals and dreams, just as I do for them.
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Someone that enjoys my company, even if you’re not having sex.
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Someone that lets me do the things that I like to do, and we don’t just do everything they want to do.
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Someone that accepts me as I am; a work in progress. I’m not perfect and I never will be.
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Someone that won’t ever use my flaws against me.
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I want someone that can keep a conversation going; tell me about your dreams, fears, what you like and dislike, etc.
Where are the guys that are like this? It’s time to come out of hiding, I'm waiting for you.
