On a daily basis many people tell me and I quote "He's not worth it". I have heard this over and over now and it has gotten to the point where I want to start an argument with he or she when they say that. This boy may not be worth it to you but…
He is worth it to me.
When you tell a girl he's not worth it she'll probably shrug and say "yeah, I know." but what she really means and is thinking her head are all the reasons he is.
This guy may be the world to this girl. He may be everything this girl has dreamed of. Everything she has ever looked for in a guy and pictures in her future. And you keep telling her he is not worth it. I understand people say this out of kindness and mean well by it and maybe that person or friend really does think that he is not worth it, But again that girl does.
You think saying this to your friend will hopefully help her get over this boy but the truth is, it doesn't. When we hear this we just think of the many reasons why he is worth it and if you are like me you might start to argue with the person about it. They'll then start pointing out all the bad things and right away she'll start defending him. Let her defend him let her get it all out and say everything she needs.
Eventually you'll notice as time goes on she'll talk about him less and less. Then she'll stop defending him every chance she gets. She'll move on you just have to give her time. The chances are this is going to happen again over and over and over again until she finds that one guy she doesn't have to defend and prove that he is worth it because he will prove it himself.
So next time you are thinking about saying "he's not worth it" to one of your friends remind yourself that to her he is perfect and she see's nothing wrong. Let her keep proving he is perfect because eventually she won't anymore. When I say she won't anymore I mean she'll stop proving it. She'll probably always think he is perfect or she never would have fell for him in the first place if he wasn't in her eyes.
In the end he really may not be worth it, but you have to let the girl figure that out for herself.
