Everybody seems to be a little too sex crazed these days. These girls learn about the birds and the bees and all of a sudden they’re out there doing it.
Well, I refuse to be one of those girls. I’ll probably never be the topic of conversation, but that’s fine by me.
I used to think I was doing something wrong when I heard girls talking about their boyfriends. “Why didn’t I have a boyfriend?” I asked myself, well let’s allow puberty to do its job and then we can talk about boyfriends.
I even felt like an outcast for being part of the 1% group who was as a single as a pringle But I saw how many girls my age had their hearts broken, how they struggled to let go of their ex, and how some even had a bun in the oven.
I mean who doesn’t enjoy a good old social media fight between two girls over a guy, but I want no part in that. I’ll be proud of my chastity and watch the cat fights from the sidelines.
And as appealing as the guys messaging me asking to “hang out” or “send pictures,” I knew that obviously their intentions weren’t pure and the minute I said I was a virgin, they would never talk to me again and would ignore me in person.
Think about it, no group of guys can sit around a table and say that they’ve ever touched me or had any sort of sexual experience with me… it’s pretty fantastic.
They can belittle any other girl they’ve been with, comparing her to other girls but I won’t have to worry about that.
Needless to say, I won’t be worried about any infectious diseases either.
I don’t want every single man who walks into my life to share this intimate experience with me. I am a private person as it is, so allowing a man who just carries the title of a boyfriend to explore my body for the temple that it is, to me is not what I desire.
I want to meet my soul mate, befriend him, fall in love and eventually exchange vows with him. I want that soulmate who knows every single one of my deepest secrets, to know every single inch of me the moment we both declare our full commitment to each other.
While some tell me that I should “test drive the car” well, practice makes perfect, doesn’t it?
Even though being a virgin in this day and age is not, perhaps the greatest thing ever, it is definitely one of my choices as a woman and I am proud to say that I will remain pure until I meet the love of my life.
