Why It's Okay If Your Best Friend Is Your Boyfriend

We all have those friends that have been around forever we're talking since middle school, high school or even earlier. Those friends have been along for your hardest of moments as you have been for them, but there is something that happens when friends drift apart and eventually it just ends. The blame game starts and the boyfriend is the easiest person to blame. I have learned that sometimes it really isn't all that bad to reevaluate relationships and the effect it does on my outside relationships as well as family.

We all know when it happens. You have had a best friend that has been with your through the ringer for pretty much every entire experience growing up. However as we grow up its inevitable that people grow away from each other and the same goes for friends as sad as that seems. 

As friends go their separate ways it is only natural for someone to go to their significant other for support. They are the person you go for comfort, love, advice and pretty much anything. We've all been told it's bad news when your significant other becomes more than just a significant other and they become the person to talk to. No matter how crazy you seem and how bad the situation is they are there. They love you and it becomes instant comfort because no matter how crazy you seem they're the ones that are there. 

This is to all the people that feel guilty about going to their s.o for support and their friends give them shit. It's not worth it and at moments of need, what you need is comfort & understanding. 

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Amanda Rossi

  Im 23, Student at SDSU as a women's studies major and lgbt minor. I love to hula hoop, find new things, meet new people and experience life. Very outspoken when it comes to what i believe in. Planning for law school to become a civil rights lawyer. Love meeting new people and like to speak out for the people who dont have the ability. An activist for all things i believe in. Proud Feminist.                                                                     Twitter handle: mandamarie65 Facebook URL: https://www.facebook.com/amanda.m.rossi

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