The idea of a “soulmate” seems impossible like a mythical creature. I didn’t believe in soulmates, I didn’t even believe a relationship could last, until you. I know soulmates exist because of you. How do I know?
- I know because God sent you for me in my worst time
- I know because we can easily finish each other’s sentences
- I know because your hand fits perfectly in mine
- I know because your heart beats at the same rhythm
- I know because you make me feel happier than I ever thought I could be
- I know because we have the same aspirations
- I know because when we argue, we resolve it quickly
- I know because most of the time we will pick the same place to eat
- I know because you motivate me
- I know because you support my coffee addiction
- I know because you’re the perfect doggy daddy
- I know because you watch chick flicks on Netflix with me
- I know because I go to sleep every night feeling loved
- I know because I couldn’t imagine life without you.
The idea of a soulmate is a scary idea. What if the person your dating isn’t your soulmate? I know you are. When I wake up, I think of you. When I fall asleep, I think of you. You fuel my desire to better myself. You make me a bold lover in this dull world. You encourage me to take risks. You have made me get over several fears. My reality has been marked upon permanently and you’re the culprit.
I want to thank you. Thank you for snapchatting me that November day. Thank you for stealing my heart. Thank you for loving me despite my flaws. Thank you for being my rock. Thank you for being sweet as honey. Thank you for giving me hope for the future. Thank you for making me feel like a princess. Thank you for dealing with my moodiness. Thank you for giving me boundless gifts. Thank you for taking on more than you anticipated. Thank you for being a hard worker. Thank you for the endless dates. Thank you for setting a good example. Thank you for being my lover and my best friend. Thank you for being you.
Lastly, for those of you that are looking for your soulmate, don’t stop. Have faith that God made someone whom is perfect for you. Someone who will treat you right. Someone who will be so much better than those in the past. Someone who will make you excited to wake up in the morning. Someone who knows how you like your coffee and what your favorite book is. Someone who will plan a perfect date night just to take your stress away. Don’t settle for less than this. Don’t settle for someone that will make you chase after them. Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t treat you like you run the world. Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t put you first. Don’t settle for someone who doesn’t show love to you. Don’t stress, your soulmate will show up soon. When they do, I have some advice for you. Be crazy in love. Go on midnight dates and 2 am drives. Have a movie night and consume copious amounts of junk food. Cuddle once a day. When the “honeymoon” phase is over, don’t fight. Try to make amends before hurtful things are said. Make sure they always know how much you love them. Surprise them with little things. Go on spontaneous dates. Love them to your best capability and always tell them they are appreciated. Find your soulmate and go through the crazy, exciting adventure called life, with your best friend by their side. Good luck.