“If a person is unable to see what makes you special, what makes you beautiful, and the aspects that you have to pursue a future with, then let them go.”
Maybe he didn’t see that and maybe he never will. He lost out on the best thing in the world. The love of a woman who would have given everything thing for him. Maybe he walked away and never looked back on all the good times. Maybe he hurt you in more ways than one and for that I am truly sorry. Times will become hard but girl you are worth fighting for.
You are beautiful! You have your mothers looks and the biggest smile when you are truly happy about something. Your smile lights up rooms and causes others to feel the joy in their hearts as well. Your eyes sparkly like diamonds even when the storm clouds come rolling in. You love your own curves and know that being beautiful is more than just your outer shell. You have a stunning style that is all your own and people are drawn to you.
You are kind and generous. You would give anything to those who need it most. You give money, time, and energy. Your family and friends can’t thank you enough for all the things you do for them. You are empathetic and understanding. You hurt when others hurt because you want to help in anyway you can.
You are driven. You fight for the things that you want in your life and are beyond strong. You could have given up years ago but you haven’t. You reach your goals by leaps and bounds because you never want to give in and give up. You work that job, you take the extra hours, you work the second job because you know in the end its worth it.
You are smart. You wouldn’t be where you are today if you weren’t smart enough to find a way to get there. You excel in street smarts, skills, business, or knowledge based things. So be smart now and see that he didn’t fight for you. Maybe he was scared, maybe he couldn’t give you what you wanted, maybe he just wasn’t ready to be loved.
You are worth it! Don’t let anyone tell you that you aren’t worth fighting for. Every attribute you have is worthy of fighting for. You deserve someone in your life who will constantly pick you up when you fall. A man who will see that you are the only one he wants to be with because you are special. We are all special and we all have to find our worth.
Maybe you struggle with knowing your own worth. How can a man know your worth fighting for to keep in his life if you don’t know your own worth? Remind yourself daily! Write down the things that are great about you or the things you are working on. Write down the things you do for others. Your love is worth so much more than being thrown to a back burner or walked away from when times get hard.
“If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.”
– Fred Rogers
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