You have no idea what you are doing with you life . The months are buzzing by, school bills are due, you still have no idea what you want to major in, your friends are wondering where the hell you've been the past few months, your parents tell you that you need to get your "act together", and that guy keeps texting you wondering when you guys will get to hang out, even though you're not interested but you're scared because you can't figure out if he's"the one" for you .
You have no idea where your life is heading, and what direction you're heading in. It feels as if the world is spinning out of control and you can't do anything to keep yourself from falling apart.
Stop what you are doing.
I don't care what it is. Put whatever is in your hand or on your mind and let go, let it vanish for one minute ( just a minute).
Now, take a deep breath, and listen to what I am about to tell you.
It's ok if you don't what the hell you're doing with your life.
It's completely fine if you're going left when you thought you were supposed to go right.
Life is constantly changing and shit is going to happen.
Nothing is ever going to go the way you think it's going to or should, but that's how life is.
You may feel that you're not on the right path, but you are.
You were put here to meet certain people, make special connections.
You are going to laugh, cry, and scream.
You are going to fall in love, have your heart broken, but you are also going to break hearts ( and you may not even realize it. )
Everything that you've done has made you into the person you are, and what you continue to do what transform you into the person that you are going to be.
You have so much ahead of you, and you don't even realize.
Stop worrying about if what you are going is the right decision, because at some point in time you'll realize how that decision impacted you.
Maybe it was the better decision at the time, or maybe it wasn't, but you'll realize that it is what was best for you.
So do me a favor the next time you're feeling overwhelmed, take a deep breath and realize that everything is going to be ok.
You may not have everything all line up the way you want it to be, but life will work itself out, and it will end up doing just what is best for you.
So chin up, everything is going to be alright ( even if it doesn't seem like it at this exact moment). And please just remember…
Everything happens for a reason.