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15 Things to Try When Your Sex Life Needs Saving

You always said that your sex life would never get dull… that would never happen to your sex life, until it did. 

All of the sudden, your sex life is feeling a little more… flat than fun and frisky, and you need to resuscitate it before it flatlines for good.

  1. Have sex somewhere other than your bedroom, like the kitchen or living room

  2. Try to get it on in a semi-public place, like your car in an abandoned parking lot

  3. Shower sex – even if it seems hella uncomfortable

  4. Add a fun toy, like a vibrator or butt plug

  5. Experiment with bondage, whether it’s handcuffs or bondage tape

  6. Incorporate a wild role play in the bedroom – like teacher/student or doctor/patient

  7. Promise that you won’t do anything sexual – including masturbate – for a whole week

  8. Send each other sexy messages throughout the day as a pregame

  9. Switch up the positions with help from the Kama Sutra

  10. Get a romance novel and mimic the sex scenes present in the book

  11. Engage in mutual masturbation and don’t touch each other

  12. Let your partner be in control of your sexy time for the night

  13. Switch it up the following time you have sex – you’re in control

  14. Invite a third person to the bedroom

  15. Share your wildest fantasies with each other – and then try them!

There’s nothing worse than having your sex life feel like it’s stagnant, but you can easily spice it up with something fun.