You’re flooded with crazy infinite happiness and butterflies when you’re with him, but that’s what’s so heartbreaking about the brutal truth of the situation: the strength of your feelings will never make up for his lack of feeling. Chemistry is a mysterious thing.
You cannot convince someone to fall in love. It’s not a choice. It’s a feeling. It’s not that he doesn’t want to want you. He’s just not capable.
1. He says he doesn’t believe in relationships or love.
If he says this to your face, he’s doesn’t believe in the possibility of love or a relationship with you.
2. He says something along the lines of I guess I’ll see you whenever I see you when you’re saying goodbye to him after hanging out.
If he’s not eager to see you again, sometime soon, he’s got other things on his mind, and you’re probably not one of them.
3. You keep going over the little things in your head.
That one time he said how cute you looked when he picked you up. But then didn’t text you all weekend. And it seemed odd he didn’t get in touch when he supposedly stayed at home, bored the whole time…something just doesn’t add up.
4. He encourages you to pursue other guys.
He’s basically hinting that he wants to keep seeing other people freely. He’s trying to gently tell you that the two of you are not exclusive. He’s not worried about losing you to someone else.