Just because someone loves their alone time doesn’t mean they don’t also love spending time with their partner. It can be confusing at first, but those of us who enjoy solitude will connect with you on a deeper level than anyone else, if you can understand us fully.
1. Alone time does not equal loneliness.
For us, alone time means relaxation and recharging, a moment to be free from all the noise of the day. It doesn’t mean we don’t want to spend time with you. It’s actually a way to clear our heads so we’ll be in the best mood when we’re with you.
2. We can’t stand being bored.
We are not the type to sit around and do nothing all day. We seek out the stuff that makes us excited to jump out of bed in the morning. This is why you should pay attention if we’re spending time with you: we value our time greatly, so we only give it to you if we care about you.