3. We might appear cold and distant at times, without meaning it.
We can get so focused on our own stuff, it might seem like we’re ignoring you. But the last thing we want is to make you feel neglected. When we’re giving you quality time, we want to give you the full attention that you deserve.
4. Don’t bother trying to get in the way of our alone time…
We’ve got very specific interests and solitary activities that we find insanely fulfilling. Doing this stuff recharges us; it makes us who we are. If someone tries to disturb or interrupt this stuff, we’ll feel like you are rejecting what is important to us. Be patient.
5. …Because we need balance.
Our alone time is what allows us to fully appreciate the time we spend with you. It helps us decompress. We want to be balanced on our own so that we can be at our best with you.