11. Do you want me to call *insert best friend name*?
Sometimes, it may be a problem that a friend can handle better, and, being the person to suggest it is helpful, too.
12. Do you want me to call *insert mom name*?
We all know there is no one who can fix our problems like our mommas.
13. Don’t be ashamed.
Let her know that she has no reason to be embarrassed and that no matter what you are not going to change the way you look at her.
14. I understand this is out of your control.
Letting her know that you comprehend this is a disorder and not something she can turn on and off, will help her come down from the attack.
15. We will get through this—together.
Always, always, always.