You Found Each Other
You’ve found yourself in complete bliss – the happiest, healthiest relationship you could have imagined. You think your dating habits are on point and he’s perfect for you, so you can’t imagine your healthy relationship getting any better, or any worse for that matter. However, even the “picture perfect”, healthy relationship can be destroyed with bad dating habits. Don’t get caught up in these little but bad datings habits and destroy your seemingly strong, long-lasting, healthy relationship.
Comparing your relationship to others.
Dating habits vary from person to person, so every relationship is different and none of them can be compared to the other without finding a flaw in the next. That itself is the immediate downfall in this and the number one bad dating habits. Could it be that you have found yourself comparing your current, healthy relationship to your last or even your best friend’s long-standing 6-year prince charming? If so, disappointment is waiting for you. This is nothing of what it was before, you are a different person now. It is nothing of what your BFF’s relationship will be because you are in a different place than she is. Don’t lose sight of the greatness that lies in your relationship based on the overwhelming knowledge of everyone else around you.
Psychoanalyzing his texts.
This is not just a bad dating habit but an unhealthy one. Every little thing he says or doesn’t say does not mean he cares less or is trying to hurt you. Doing this can drive you insane for no reason at all. Text messages can get misconstrued, it’s better to have important conversations in person than be guilty of this bad dating habit. If you’re getting upset over the text he sent back, try waiting, talking to him in person. If he truly does mean it how he is saying it, he should have the courage to say it to you in person and you deserve the respect to hear it that way. Don’t get upset over minced words, they may not be what they appear. But, it could destroy your relationship.
