“Three Words. Eight Letters. Say it and I’m yours.??? -Blair Waldorf
If you were a Gossip Girls fan, you had a soft spot for Chuck Bass. Unlike Lonely boy, who tried too hard and Nate Archibald, who didn’t have to, there was something about Chuck Bass, that made every girl fall for him. Regardless of being able to get anyone he wanted at any time, there was Blair, the one he always came back too. The one, who kept us watching just to make sure they did in fact end up together.
There is something about broken people like Mr. Bass, who everyone can relate to. He showed us it’s okay to not have a perfect life, it’s okay to mess up, it’s okay to break down and hit rock bottom, because in the world of Upper East Side, Chuck taught us we are all human.
And if you are as lucky as Queen B, you fall in love with someone like this, but the road to loving a Chuck Bass is not easy one. It’s takes patience of a woman and gentleness to handle such a person so fragile.
And if by chance you fall in love with a Chuck Bass, well you might be ruined in the most beautiful way.
1. He’s gonna have a past…We can’t control where we come from, but we do have say in where we go and who we take with us. You can’t judge him from where he came from, but rather where he is choosing to go as a result of a past he couldn’t control.
2. But want you in his future…Whether you like to admit it or not, you guys probably run in circles with each other because just maybe you are supposed to be there.
3. He’s gonna push you away…There will be moments without understanding, where he’s just gonna wanna be alone. He isn’t gonna explain it. He just fears getting close to someone, so his natural response is to push you away.
“It’s hard for me to let people in,??? -Chuck Bass
4. Just to see if you care enough to stay…But he’s watching you and your next move. It takes a rare woman to stay, when she doesn’t know if he’ll come back. But if you stand still, I promise you he will.
5. He’s gonna test you…He’s gonna come bearing a lot of questions to try and grasp an understanding if this can be something or not. It’s gonna seem exhausting, all he puts you through. But for some reason, even you might not understand, you keep trying too.
6. Because women have hurt him before…Like Chuck Bass, who was left by his mom, he wonders can any woman ever stay? Because when the person who hurt you most, who was supposed to love you most, doesn’t he’ll think of it as a direct reflection of himself. It’s your job to show him that isn’t true.
“Don’t leave. Everybody leaves.??? -Chuck Bass
7. He’s gonna hurt you...because we all sometimes you hurt the people you love.
8. But you have to forgive him for it…it’s your job to teach him about forgiveness.
“I’m sorry for the pain I caused you. And I know I can’t take it back, but I wanna try and make it up to you. Even if it takes me the rest of my life.??? -Chuck Bass
9. He’s gonna believe in you…He’s gonna be the number 1 fan on your sideline cheering. He’s gonna believe in you and every dream, no matter how crazy it may seem. His belief in you will make you believe in yourself.
10. Even though he might not believe in himself…But he’s gonna endure obstacles himself and he’s gonna need someone cheering him on too.
11. He has high walls built…He’s unbelievably guarded. And it isn’t gonna be easy getting through those walls. But when you do, you’ll suddenly understand everything and view him as even more beautiful than before.
12. And it’ll take a while for them to come down...time is key to everything with these people.
13. He has a reputation to uphold…within his family or community, people have expected a lot of him. And he doesn’t like letting people down. Like Chuck Bass, his father built an empire and everyone expected him, the privileged rich kid to take over and ruin it. But he won’t
14. Which adds a lot of pressure to his life…and with that pressure he’s gonna focus so much on his career and less on you.
15. He’s gonna think he’s better off alone…he knows you don’t deserve that. He thinks he can’t have both an empire and queen. There will be moments where he chooses one not in your favor.
16. But you just gotta teach him a thing or two about love…but just have patience and teach him you can have both.
17. He’s gonna want what is best for you…he adores you more than he is able to convey. He probably thinks you are the most beautiful woman in the world. He wants you happy and there will be times he thinks you’ll be happiest without him.
“I only want you to be happy, I’m just sorry it couldn’t be with me,??? -Chuck Bass
18. Sometimes he thinks it won’t be him…but you know it to be true that isn’t anyone else you’d rather have on your side.
19. He’ll think he’s tainted…because someone who strives for perfection will always be their own worst enemy.
20. And unable to be loved…and he’s gonna think he doesn’t deserve love.
21. Or be able to reciprocate it…and there will be times where he wonders can he love?
22. Keep trying….but the people who are hardest to love are always the most worth it.
“You don’t give up on the people you love??? -Chuck Bass
23. Regardless of the obstacles you endure…there are times where it won’t make sense the two of you, but the only thing that would make less sense than the two of you being together, would be the two of you being a part.
24. He wins…and everyone else is just second.
25. Because even if you date other people…you’ll be thinking of him.
26. They won’t even compare…and the qualities that he has, that they don’t.
27. And you’ll find your way back…because like Chuck said best the two people meant to be together, always find their way back.
28. He’ll remember you never gave up on him…because in the end that’s all he ever wanted in a woman.
“Most of all I’m sorry I gave up on us when you never did,??? -Chuck Bass
29. And in return he’ll do anything for you…because you deserve it.
30. Like give you the happily ever after you deserve…because every girl dreams of it.
31. And he’ll hold the hand of his queen…who proves to him fairytales do exist.
32. Who makes even having an empire worth it…regardless of any success that is behind his name, of the things money can’t buy, are the depths of your love for him.
“You said I’ll always bet against you, this time I’m all in.??? -Blair Waldorf
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