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7 Annoying Misconceptions About the Alpha Female

 

3. They’re blunt because they like drama.

No, they’re actually blunt because they want to avoid drama. Think about all those times that someone held in their feelings and then an issue built up and exploded. One thing to take off your list of worries is having that happen around an alpha female.

 

Alpha females do not like to argue, their approach to conflicts is more direct so it may appear like they do, but don’t be fooled – an alpha wants to listen and talk things out in a meaningful and real way so that fights are avoided, not started.

 

4. Alpha’s are high-maintenance.

Alphas are not high-maintenance, they just know their worth. Girls who think of themselves as “chill” or “low maintenance” often misconceive themselves as such and end up being doormats instead of girlfriends. 

 

The other facets of their personality and what makes them unique gets suffocated under his needs. An alpha will instead focus on her own integrity and worth. That’s scary for a lot of lesser males because they know that she isn’t obsessed about keeping him if that means she has to sacrifice any of her own needs.

 

5. Alphas are insensitive.

Being all gooey is extremely difficult for an Alpha. She’s had to go through a lot of people’s bullshit, so her hard exterior is just her reaction to the world’s crap.

 

It’s often the people that are tough and don’t show their emotions easily on the outside are the ones who are the most sensitive inside. An alpha is actually overly sensitive and affectionate underneath all that sass.