6. Alpha’s want everyone to agree with everything that they say and any opinion that they have.
That’s probably the biggest misconception of all. The thing about an alpha female is they like to challenge, and they often call people out on their bullshit – which makes people get really defensive.
Alphas like to speak to people bluntly and to their face – not because they disregard any opinions other than their own or try to convince everyone of theirs, but because they like to challenge. But often, just because someone needs to hear it, doesn’t mean it’s always what they want to hear and alphas end up being labeled as “controlling? or “narcissistic.?”
7. Alpha’s are controlling.
If there is a problem, she likes to solve it. An alpha is a hard worker and is passionate about her ideas. This is often misunderstood by lesser males and females as wanting dominance or control – but that is further from the truth.
She is often the leader in a group because she voices her opinions and ideas and can make fast decisions. She is extremely independent and sometimes she speaks like she know it all because she does. Just kidding. Kinda. She is just sure of herself and that comes through in her voice – but it’s not arrogance that you’re hearing, it’s passion, confidence and experience. And her ultimate goal? To makes things better.