The idea of summer love is one that everybody wants to experience for themselves at least once in their lives. But I have come to find that in this day and age, it is much more realistic to experience a summer hook-up, which is all the fun of a summer love, just without the legitimate love.
First and foremost, you can have a summer love if you want to. In fact, if you and your summer love can find me a summer love of my own then we can totally double date. But until that day comes, I will just stick to the basics, which are defined by a beautiful, open, physically driven relationship. In order to make sure that your summer hook-up goes over swimmingly (pun absolutely, positively intended) then be sure to keep a few things in mind before diving in (again, that pun was incredibly and undoubtedly intended.)
The whole purpose of having a short-term hook up is to be a little bit wild and daring. Feel free to mix it up with your summer FWB and do not be afraid to try new things. Of course, you can set your limits, but odds are you will not become the subject of a new “I Know What You Did Last Summer,” plot if you just so happen to have sex on the beach.
An Expiration Date
If it is going to be a summer hook-up, then it must die when autumn starts to make its appearance. You have to ensure that you will not extend your relations once you both go your seperate ways or else it will not be as fun anymore. The cool think about a summer hook-up is that they aren’t supposed to last forever; they are simply a quick and enjoyable fix.
If things are going to get hot then you better find a guy who has an air-conditioned home. If not, get ready to sweat more so than you already do in the hot season.
I cannot stress this enough, but I can add it to the list one more time to assure you how important it is to be daring in this affair.