The person with two speeds can be there in the moment with you at first, but it will be hard to keep up with them. They are on a whole other level.
They are either sleeping or 110% energized.
The more you get to know them you will know what pace they are at.
1. They can’t sit down for a long period of time.
If you want to make a plan with them to watch a movie, make sure you warn them ahead of time. Even if you plan ahead, most of them time when they are finally sitting down they will pass out from exhaustion. Since they are always on the move, when they finally get down time they are bound to fall asleep. Before you know it the date movie is completely not a thing anymore.
2. They are constantly focused on the next project.
They are probably the most productive people you will ever meet. They are always doing something and keeping busy. It’s a rare occasion when you see this person relaxing. When you’re dating someone who’s like this, try and find creative ways to keep them occupied. If they don’t have something to do, the boredom will catch up to them quickly. They like to be productive.
3. They are full of new ideas.
Their mind is just constantly racing. Sometimes, it’s hard to keep up with them because you never know what’s going through their head. You will want to be able to understand what they are thinking. Most of the time, they will leave you wondering. You just have to trust that their thoughts are moving in a positive direction.
4. Simply being in their company will stimulate and inspire you.
When you are dating someone who has two speeds, they will want to make sure you can be as driven as them. If they truly care about you, they will make you a big priority in their life.
5. Giving up is not an option for them.
They never back down from a challenge. They are not even capable of quitting. Their daily tasks are extremely important for them to complete otherwise it will throw their whole day off. You might even mistake them for the energizer bunny because they are always full of life.
6. When they are finally relaxing, let them be.
Their hearts are filled with a lot of ambition. When you see them falling asleep, just be extra quiet and considerate. They are in desperate need of a power nap. Make sure to let them know that’s totally fine if they go and take some “me” time. They always find time to finish their “to do list.”
7. Don’t tell them to calm down.
God forbid they take the time to rest. You might need to give them a wake-up call to help them simmer down. Since they are always doing something, you have to remind them to chill out. It might get frustrating always reminding them that they need to find a balance. You don’t want them to burn out.
8. Make sure they feel appreciated.
When they are working so much, remind them how much you love and care for them. People tend to take for granted how hard they work. They never do a half-assed job on anything. Let them know that they are worthy to you. They need as much love and attention as anyone else does.
Do your best to keep up with their busy lifestyle.
