A happy and sexual relationship has foreplay at its center.
Both men and women crave foreplay. This can include oral sex, massage, or rimming. Even reading erotica together with a partner counts as foreplay. If you find yourself in a relationship that is one sided, where your partner focuses only on his or her self, it may be time to say goodbye, or communicate your desires before you lose excitement altogether.
These foreplay moves are worth a go.
Scalp Massage
A scalp massage has the power to relax a partner into feeling sexy and desired. Use the nails and glide them up the neck and into the scalp. Squeeze the hair gently. Foreplay is designed to cause arousal in a partner prior to intercourse, while relaxation techniques like the scalp massage is both foreplay and relaxation. Imagine being able to feed sexy thoughts into your partner’s mind during the massage.
Today’s society is overworked. A rise in the cost of living puts stress on the shoulders of students and young people, and this can lead to depression and undue stress. The scalp massage is a great move that can be done almost anywhere. Once your partner has given you a ten or fifteen minute scalp massage, it’s time to change places.
A Sizzling Make Out Session
A spontaneous make out sessions sets the whole body alight. The spine tingles, the genitals get excited and secrete juices and pre-cum, and you feel sexy and desired. All couples should have a long passionate make out session regularly, and aim to do it in random places too like your parent’s place, while they’re in the kitchen making you both a drink of tea. Spice up your sex life by focusing on places to make out other than the bedroom.
Genital Rubbing With Clothes On
When the body is naked it’s too easy to fall into intercourse. This is why it’s good to work on your patience. Make out for several minutes without stripping. This can play out as mental torture, but it’s fun all the same. Imagine how it’s going to feel when you two can’t take the foreplay a second longer. If the session leads to a mutual beg for masturbation, oral sex, or sex, it’s having the desired effect.
Massage
Try these areas to drive your partner crazy. The nape of the neck is extremely sensitive to kisses and sucks. Don’t forget to kiss and nibble the earlobes. If your partner is not moaning hysterically during this foreplay move, flip them over and give them a deep French kiss, before returning your attention to the nape of the neck.
One of my favorite massage moves is the butt massage, but a few rubs on the back of my thigh can have the desired effect too. Massage creates relaxation and this is where the real fun starts. A relaxed partner is open to suggestion. Foreplay is all about creating desire in a partner. Foreplay can occur for several minutes, if you are both in the mood to get it on early, but it’s possible to continue with foreplay for hours. The more you can turn each other on in the moment the hotter the sex will be.
Communicate Your Fantasies
Communication can make for great foreplay between partners. Why not share a bottle of wine and sit on opposite ends of the sofa and share a fantasy. Take it in turns to play out the fantasy in your head. Yes, you may feel aroused the longer you continue, but that’s the objective of this particular foreplay move.
Foreplay does not have to be boring if you use your mind to think up original ways to tease your partner. Turning on a partner is foreplay for the giver, and it’s equally sizzling for the receiver. Foreplay is an act of love. It helps us to feel desired and loved. Engage in foreplay regularly and don’t worry about the time it takes to turn on a partner. If these moves make her wet, you’ll find it easy to make her cum during oral sex or clitoral stimulation.
