5. Do not treat them like a sick person.
Anxiety is very real and very scary – but that doesn’t mean you should treat someone as though they’re a sick patient and disabled. No one suffering from any illness – mental or physical – wants to be treated as any less of a person due to their illness. Treat them like a human. Do not belittle them. Do not look down on them. Do not treat them with less respect or admiration.
6. Be realistic with your needs & vise versa.
Not everyone is fully, emotionally and mentally capable of dealing with anxiety disorders. It’s okay to be open and honest and admit when your needs are not being met. In return, listen to your partner when she’s discussing her needs. Sometimes, you two may not see eye-to-eye and realize, it won’t work out. It’s okay to admit when it isn’t working out – don’t hide your uncertainty because you’re too scared to hurt someone who is “fragile.” Be up front and honest with her, allowing her to find someone who is better suited for her.
7. Don’t assume everything is “because of her anxiety.”
When you get into arguments, don’t pull the anxiety card out – it’s a low blow. Some things in your relationship may differ in their outcome because of her anxiety, but, that doesn’t mean every disagreement or difference in opinion is a direct result of it. Don’t blame her anxiety for everything wrong, don’t use it as a cop out during fights to get your way.