An ongoing occurrence, you’re just one more person they want to claim they are doing better than.
So, you go months without talking with the guilt is eating at you but your pride standing in the way.
Except, of course, the small chit chat you initiate while trying to save the little bit of relationship you have left.
Whether it is your parents, siblings, cousins, or even really close friends you consider family… If you have this kind of negativity in your life, it is best to cut it out.
Sometimes you have to do what makes you happy, no matter how it makes other people feel.
When you decide to go your own way, when you decide to do what is best for you as well as your mental state, that is when you will understand who will truly be there for you.
But, you will also realize the people who will never be there for you unless they want to be there to watch as you fail.
Then after they tell you how foolish you are for your decisions, they do the same things.
You do not always get to watch the people you love have children, teach their children right from wrong, or maybe you will be the child who will not be there when their parents pass away due to grudges…
So many lives end after holding grudges for years, so many lives end when no last breaths have been breathed.
But still, sometimes you do not get to watch the people you love grow old.