The Right Guy
You may need to kiss a lot of frogs and snakes and maybe even some unpleasant creatures before you find them, but they’re worth it and so are you.
The right guy for you doesn’t have to come equipped with the personality, rocking body, good looks etc… they just have to meet you where you are. They need to meet you in your world, at your time.
And they need to respect the fact that you have a fragile heart and that more times than not, you guard that shit like Fort Knox.
They need to understand that although they are your warrior, they need not tear down your walls in one foul swoop or the next thing they will see is your eyeball glaring at them through the peek hole in the door you just slammed in their face after locking and throwing away the key.