2. The guy with zero ambition.
You fell for him because he seemed so chill and cool — but somehow, being “chill” and “cool” has turned into him living with his parents, occasionally delivering pizza, and smoking weed while he plays video games all day. And the worst part? He doesn’t seem to have any desire to move forward in life or change his circumstances.
While it’s totally relatable to find yourself stuck in a rut, that doesn’t mean you need to date somebody who’s stuck in a rut. If anything, you might be making them complacent. Not only that, but a guy who’s too lazy to do anything about his future is probably too lazy to ultimately put any work into the relationship.
3. The guy who likes to keep his options open.
Sowing your wild oats is all good and well, but we’ve found ourselves in an age where that’s all anyone seems to be doing. Thanks to dating apps, there’s always another option around the corner—so nobody’s compelled to put in the effort necessary to make a relationship work.
If you’re with some guy who refuses to define your relationship or to be exclusive when you want to be, then I’m here to tell you right now: he’s not going to miraculously change overnight and decide that he wants to be in a committed relationship. So, if you’re not into that kind of dynamic, stop deluding yourself and delete his number from your phone.
