Him leaving tore you apart. It hurts more than you imagined and you don’t where to go from here. He left you feeling like you did something wrong, like all the events that led to this moment are completely your fault. You feel like you’re not going to be able to move on, that you’re going to be unlovable and stuck in your current situation.
Him leaving you despite it all was not a bad thing. In fact, it may have been a blessing in disguise.
Do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t really love you, or doesn’t see all the good in you? His leaving gave you an opportunity to find the one who is going to love you with so much love that you aren’t going to know what hit you. He’s going to show you that the pain you’re feeling now was worth it in the end.
It’s also going to give you time to focus on yourself and the things you want in life. Take time and figure out the things that are important to you. Whether it’s work, school, traveling, friends or finding a new hobby.
His leaving wasn’t the end of your world, I know it feels like it. However, it’s just an end of a chapter in your book of life.
You have to stop crying, stop waiting for him to come back to you and to make it right, chances are, he isn’t going to. He doesn’t deserve the tears you’ve been crying, he doesn’t deserve to go out and have fun with his friends while you’re lying around on the couch sulking over him.
You have to get back out there, buy a new outfit, paint that gorgeous smile on your face and start enjoying your life again. You only have one life to live and I promise you it’s time to start living it again.
One day soon it’s gonna hit you that he did you a favor.
When he finally realizes that he gave up on true love, someone else is already going to have started building you back up. You’ll already be on the path of creating new memories with someone else.
So embrace the heartache. I know it’s terrible but it makes you a stronger and wiser woman. Let yourself feel everything you need to heal and then move forward. Tomorrow is always a new day, and it’s your day.
So put on that smile that’s been missing. You’re beautiful, so go out and show the world the happy girl we all know is in there.
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