Thoughtful Gifting
No. not really a new smartphone every other year; thoughtful, even if inexpensive, gifts will build a strong foundation for a happy long distance relationship with anybody. Even a simple hand written letter, custom packed, becomes a memorable gift both of you won’t be tired of talking about. Gifts such as souvenirs of places you went to together, quirky photo gifts, or even your friend or fiancé’s favorite ice cream’s jumbo pack – you have so many options, only if you’d start thinking!
Use Technology Judiciously
Do I even need to tell you about it? Probably yes, because couples might not always be making the best use of technology to maintain their long distance relationships. There are way too many options – video calls, audio messages, cool and funny GIFs, instant messaging, and of course, free long distance calls over Internet. Try them out, and see what works best for both of you. If both of you have jobs and active social lives, being on extended calls every other day might not always be practical, so you might want to agree on some basic ‘space’ rules. Also, consider slipping in the good old email every now and then’ a sweet, thoughtful, and expressive letter never hurt anybody.
Parting Thoughts
Insecurity and jealousy will meet you somewhere in your journey through every long distance relationship. Rather than hoping you’d avoid them, prepare to meet them well-equipped. I hope you can use some of the tips I shared in this guide.